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PERSONAL STYLIST TIPS: THE BASICS OF PERSONAL STYLING - HOW TO DISCOVER YOUR UNIQUE STYLE
Your unique style is something you can curate, enjoy and discover, with a few simple tips and insights. As a personal stylist myself, I have gone through a few style changes. When I was in Italy, in a fashion house, then when I became a Mum, following that when I launched my own business, and when I celebrated certain milestones. These may be moments for you where you feel you need to mould your wardrobe slightly, but that doesnāt mean your core unique personal style changes.
In this article I wanted to share with you a few tips to help you discover how to create your own personal style, and make a wardrobe that you love.
Personal style is often something my clients feel is āout of reachā or only for those with their own team of stylists to help them curate expensive, large, uneconomical wardrobes. But what if I told you this isnāt what personal styling is about?
Your unique style is something you can curate, enjoy and discover, with a few simple tips and insights. As a personal stylist myself, I have gone through a few style changes. When I was in Italy, in a fashion house, then when I became a Mum, following that when I launched my own business, and when I celebrated certain milestones. These may be moments for you where you feel you need to mould your wardrobe slightly, but that doesnāt mean your core unique personal style changes.
In this article I wanted to share with you a few tips to help you discover how to create your own personal style, and make a wardrobe that you love.
Why is a unique style something to embrace?
Do you have a wardrobe that feels scattered, unauthentic or filled with garments you feel you should love but just donāt quite sit right? This is a wardrobe that doesnāt reflect your personal style. You may have to wear a uniform, or feel that you have to follow certain expectations in your own life, so youāre making investments in clothes that others impose upon you, rather than your own.
A unique style is something that can help you find the stores, clothes, outfits, patterns, and shapes that you feel your best in. It will reflect your personality (as is in the name!) and you will finally feel āyourselfā in the pieces you put together. The transformation and relaxation this can give you is priceless. I promise you, when you discover your own unique style, your wardrobe and confidence will fall more in place than before. Just like finding a hobby you love, a personal style that is truly yours will bring you joy and comfort.
Start by finding inspiration
The easiest way to start finding your personal style is by finding others who have a style you love. Look on Instagram, find celebrities, and utilise Pinterest to collate a storyboard of inspiration for your style.
Being able to quickly look at a collection of those you find inspiring in terms of fashion, then helps you consider how you can reflect this in your wardrobe.
If youāre finding it difficult to do, speak with a friend and ask them to share who they feel are the top celebrities that are similar to your personality. This can then help you search for similar people to get more ideas!
Backwards picture search/Link to Know
You may have seen that plenty of Instagram āinfluencersā share in their content to āclick the link in my bioā to shop their wardrobe. This is done with an app called āLink to Knowā. The great thing about this app is you can search based on styles, trending, and even follow creators you like. This gives you the opportunity to physically shop their wardrobe so you can replicate your own creations. This is great if you find it difficult to create outfits on your own.
Another way to do this is to ābackwards picture searchā on google, by inputting a picture to Google and using the shopping option. Apps like Asos also have this option in their search function too, and they will use the picture you have uploaded and suggest garments that the AI can see.
Consider the personality you have
One of the first things I do with my clients during a colour and style clinic, is finding out all about their own personality. We go through different styles like abstract and romantic (there are lots of different ones!) to then make a board that reflects them. There may be mixes of the different styles with one main style at the top. This can then influence the pieces that youāll feel your best in.
You can find out even more about the different style personalities, and how to define them, in our blog post, here, or book a colour and style clinic with me to work together.
This personal style base can then work for your outfits, while you can curate outfits that work with your daily needs such as work and family, without feeling outside of yourself.
Find the colours and patterns you love
When you find colours and patterns that make you joyous, your wardrobe will be filled with pieces you love! Colour has a strong relationship with mindfulness and happiness. Whether you love deep rich colours or bright ones, find the colours that make you feel joy.
It may feel a little overwhelming to pack your once neutral wardrobe with colour and pattern straight away, so take it in stages! Accessories, handbags, even nail varnish, can be an inexpensive solution for you to start.
If you want to find the colours that would work best for your skin tone, book in for a Colour Clinic, and we can do this together. This will also provide you with your full fabric book of the colours that work together, including your base colours, neutrals and accent colours. This will help you put colours together in your wardrobe and create outfits that work in synergy.
The most important thing that fashion should do for you is make you feel great. On days when you may feel low, an outfit should be easy to pull together, because you have a wardrobe that feels truly āyouā. If this isnāt how you are feeling right now about your wardrobe, Iād love to support you.
PERSONAL STYLIST TIPS: THE ROLE OF MAKEUP AND HAIRSTYLING IN PERSONAL STYLE
Beyond just enhancing our features, makeup and hairstyling have the ability to sculpt, accentuate, and illuminate our unique features.
Something many of my clients find the most transformative from my colour clinics is understanding the ways in which they can use their hairstyles and make up to transform their confidence. Weāve all been there ā gone to a hairdressing appointment and left feeling on top of the world (or in some cases ready to run and hide!). Understanding your face shape and colourings means you can play with the hairstyles that would accentuate your features in the best possible way, and the colours you may want to try out.
Beyond just enhancing our features, makeup and hairstyling have the ability to sculpt, accentuate, and illuminate our unique features.
Something many of my clients find the most transformative from my colour clinics is understanding the ways in which they can use their hairstyles and make up to transform their confidence. Weāve all been there ā gone to a hairdressing appointment and left feeling on top of the world (or in some cases ready to run and hide!). Understanding your face shape and colourings means you can play with the hairstyles that would accentuate your features in the best possible way, and the colours you may want to try out.
Face Shape and Colour Analysis
Imagine your face as a blank canvas, understanding your face shape is similar to knowing the contours of your canvas ā it lays the foundation for creating harmonious makeup and hairstyles. From heart-shaped to oval, each face shape offers its own set of opportunities to play up your best features.
Our colour clinics take this concept a step further, helping you discover the hues that complement your unique skin tone, eye colour, and hair shade. By mastering these fundamental principles, you'll be able to play with makeup looks that enhance your natural beauty and hairstyles that frame your face beautifully.
The Art of Makeup
Makeup is more than just a cosmetic; it's a form of self-expression. Whether you prefer a natural, barely-there look or a bold, statement-making style, the key lies in understanding how to play with the colours available and with confidence.
From the perfect nude lipstick to a mesmerising eyeshadow palette, each product becomes a tool in your artistic arsenal, helping you play with makeup in new ways.
I love helping my clients walk away from a colour clinic with me with a fresh face of make up that they love, in the colours that make them shine. They can have a go-to look for every day, and then more glamourous options understanding the lipsticks, eyeshadows, blushes and bronzers that will make them glow.
Framing your Face with your Hairstyle
It is important to understand your face shape if you want to have hairstyles that will accentuate your look. Youāll also want to think about your lifestyle when choosing a hairstyle that suits you best. You may want to go all out with a layer-filled look, but if you only have 5 minutes every morning, then this may not be the best option.
As general tips, those with heart-shaped faces may gravitate towards hairstyles that add volume around the jawline, balancing out the broader forehead. Meanwhile, individuals with oval faces have the flexibility to experiment with various lengths and textures, embracing versatility in their hair journey.
As a personal stylist, I believe in the transformative power of makeup and hairstyles. Beyond just providing a service, it's about fostering a collaborative journey of self-discovery and empowerment. By incorporating face shape and colour analysis into my consultations, I ensure that every client receives a bespoke experience tailored to their unique features and personality.
By embracing the principles of face shape and colour analysis, you can unlock the full potential of your beauty and express yourself with confidence. Remember, the most beautiful thing you can wear is your smile ā but a killer lipstick and fabulous hairstyle certainly don't hurt!
PERSONAL SHOPPER TIPS: TOP COLOUR TRENDS FOR AUTUMN
I love the colours of autumn. With the falling of the leaves and changing of the season come deep oranges, burnt reds, dark purples and more. For those within the seasonal colour palette of autumn, this is your time to shine! Let your skin shine with these colours all around us. To celebrate the changing of the seasons, Iāll share with you my top colour trends for autumn and how to try them depending on your season.
I love the colours of autumn. With the falling of the leaves and changing of the season come deep oranges, burnt reds, dark purples and more. For those within the seasonal colour palette of autumn, this is your time to shine! Let your skin shine with these colours all around us.
For those of us within different seasonal colour palettes, we can still wear these colours, but need to be mindful of the tones to make them suit us.
To celebrate the changing of the seasons, Iāll share with you my top colour trends for autumn and how to try them depending on your season.
If you donāt yet know your colour palette, I share my tips on finding yours here, or book a colour clinic for a personalised and confidence-boosting session in London or online.
How to wear red this autumn
Seen across an array of catwalks, this show-stopping colour is one I am pleased to welcome to the darker days. Shining brightly as the weather often makes us want to stay in over a hot cup of coco and a movie, the colour may have a great effect on our mindsets.
What tones of red to use based on your season
Depending on your season, the tones of red to use will vary. From deep and rich, to bright and light, knowing the perfect shade will make a huge difference.
How to wear red as an autumn
Autumns need to look for deep, rich and warm reds. Think dark brick red, with an almost purple undertone. You can play with red lipstick, shoes, or all out with a red suit. Of course, starting with some accessories, like a pashmina or red ankle boots can be an easy way into the colour.
How to wear red as a winter
Fuchsia and bright icy pinks are more suited to your skin tone, as well as brighter cooler reds. With your contrasting features, youāll want to look for deep yet bright undertones. A brighter red scarf could work to take you through to winter, while you may want to opt for some red boots for the rainier season (and to add drama to any outfit!).
How to wear red as a spring
With a warmer undertone than winters, springs look best in bright and strong colours. Think of poppy reds as inspiration. A red bag is always a great go-to accessory no matter the weather, while you can dive in head first into the colour of the. Pair with yellow or rose gold accessories, and youāre ready to paint the town red.
How to wear red as a summer
Summers have cooler undertones with soft features, and will suit more pastel or soft red tones. Pairing your red garments with lighter neutrals will help to soften the red that can be a tricker colour for you. Pinks are more suited to your colours, so this may be a more approachable way to implement this colour into your wardrobe. Why not add some edge with a leather shirt over your wide legged jeans and combat boots?
How to wear grey this autumn
For those of my client who love to wear black, they can be disappointed that this colour doesnāt fit within their season. Thatās why charcoal or deep grey can be a solution for them. Grey can be a variety of tones, and it can be used as a neutral under your more unique or statement colours.
While for some, you may be jumping at the thought of a grey colour, the ways in which this tone can be used can be full and perfect for professional looks, should you need to. Make sure you pair it with your statement colours such as pinks, teals, or purples, to really shine.
How to wear charcoal as an autumn
Deep and rich charcoal and deep browns are a go-to neutral for you. You can also move into a lighter charcoal as long as it still provides a deep and rich tone for your skin. An elegant and structured jumper are excellent additions to your wardrobe for this time of year.
How to wear charcoal as a winter
Winters suit black unlike any other season, and you will shine with this rich deep colour, like charcoal. Grey needs to be as close to black as you can find, and will match with icy blues, bright pinks or emerald green. A classic grey suit trouser for work, or for a special occasion or black tie event, a strapless floor length dress in deep charcoal could look beautiful on you with a pair of emerald shoes & jewellery. For a more casual look, pair a charcoal pair of wide legged charcoal jeans with sneakers and turtleneck bodysuit.
How to wear charcoal as a spring
Charcoal is a trickier colour for you wear but paired with bright light colours you can play with this autumnal trend. Lighter grey may be a better solution for you, pair a light grey trench with pastel pinks or bright blues to really make a statement.
How to wear charcoal as a summer
A softer charcoal will look perfect on your skin tone, when matched with pastel yellows or pinks. A pair of soft grey sneakers paired with your favourite jeans and pastel coloured top are great for day to day, or why not try a midi skirt paired with heeled boots and a pink body suit for a unique look.
How to wear pink this autumn
You guessed it ā the Barbie movie has been taking over and with that comes the fashion. While pink is a fun, bright, and engaging colour, it seems to be a little bit marmite. Some love it, some hate it! If you want to try out pink this autumn and feel your true Barbie-self, now is a great time to play with it.
How to wear pink as an autumn
Deep, luscious pinks are best for you. Paired with deep tones or going fully monochromatic will brighten up the darker season. When you look outside at this time of year, there isnāt much pink to pick and choose from, so you may be better suited to a peachier or more coral-colour. Try out a coral lipstick or a pink with an orange undertone for best results! These peachy, abstract ankle boots are a fun and unique accessory for your wardrobe to try out the colour of the year.
How to wear pink as a winter
Bright pinks and fuchsias are beautiful on your skin and you can go all out Barbie! This one-shoulder maxi dress will let you party the night away in all your glory. Pair with silver platform heels and jewellery for a sparkly look. If you want to start small, a headband or a crossover body bag can be your stepping stone into the colour.
How to wear pink as a spring
As with any season, all of us can wear any colour, as long as we select the right tone. For springs, however, jewellery in rose gold looks the best on you, playing into the pinkier hues that work with your clothing too. Bright and light pinks work well for you, too, so you can layer your pinks with your rose gold accessories. This light pink longline jacket is an essential for the season, while this pink and rose gold daisy ring is a fun and cute accessory.
How to wear pink as a summer
Barbie must be a summer as pinks across a variety of tones look great on you. Colours you see in Mother of Pearl or softer pinks are your go-to. A pastel pink blouse, hairband, or shoes are all fabulous options to add to your wardrobe for the season. This satin single breasted blazer feels āLegally Blondeā meets āBarbieā in one. While this frilly, lace-trimmed maxi dress could be layered over warmer garments to keep the spring in your step. This dusky pink, fit and flare dress is a party dress that could suit work and play!
I hope you enjoy welcoming a new season. If you want to play with new colours to brighten your wardrobe, Iād love to help.
PERSONAL STYLIST TIPS: HOW TO DRESS FOR AN AUTUMNAL WEDDING
Autumn can be a tricky time to dress for, then add on top of that an occasion such as a wedding and you may be baffled for what to wear.
In the UK, Autumn tends to be drizzly and cool ā so being prepared for these weather changes is essential for your outfit.
In this blog, Iāll be sharing some top tips on how to dress for an autumnal wedding so you still feel appropriately dressed for the special occasion, even if the weather decides to change on you!
Autumn can be a tricky time to dress for, then add on top of that an occasion such as a wedding and you may be baffled for what to wear.
In the UK, Autumn tends to be drizzly and cool ā so being prepared for these weather changes is essential for your outfit.
In this blog, Iāll be sharing some top tips on how to dress for an autumnal wedding so you still feel appropriately dressed for the special occasion, even if the weather decides to change on you!
Select a warm layer
Layering is all important at this time of year. Youāll want to have a small additional layer to pop into your handbag, hotel room or car for the late afternoon/evening. Something like a bolero, pashmina, or blazer can be excellent solutions.
A pashmina works over dresses, jumpsuits and suits, and can be a boho-chic option, while a bolero is a more formal option. A blazer is an excellent solution for your two piece outfit, and you could go all out and wear a formal suit for the wedding, or why not play with different colours to make a statement?
Another option to keep yourself warm during an autumnal wedding, particularly if you are in older venue without heating (or when the fire isnāt lit) or if you are at an outdoor wedding, is to look for hosiery. A thicker dernier pair of tights can go a long way to keeping warm, without deterring from the elegance of your outfit.
Sleeve length
While during the spring and summer you may be wearing sleeveless or short sleeved garments, an autumn wedding may call for a longer sleeve. A Ā¾ length sleeve is a great option for this time of year and can be excellent for highlighting your waist. Look for a length of sleeve that stops right at the smaller part of your waist so it brings the eye in.
A full length sleeve is another option, and can be perfect for outdoor weddings where you know it will get a little chilly.
For an elegant look, why not try a dress with a cape attachment? This covers the shoulders, and adds an additional layer for warmth.
Play with suiting
Suits are becoming more and more fashionable, and are a beautiful choice for an autumnal wedding. Look for autumnal colours to really pop for the season, and match with a warm, elegant shirt underneath. To really play with the suiting element, you could mix and match your blazer and trousers, and add accessories to make the look more feminine such as jewellery, heels and your bag.
I wrote an article all about how to style a suit, for more inspiration, should you want to try a suit.
Try a jumpsuit
A jumpsuit is an effective option for this cooler weather as it keeps your legs covered, while looking formal and fun. Depending on the colour, pattern and style, you can dress up or dress down the jumpsuit to match the wedding.
Look out for the right shape for your body shape to elevate your confidence. Some jumpsuits can have a shorter torso or gusset area, so I always recommend trying your jumpsuit on at the shop.
One of the most important things about dressing for a special occasion is to feel confident and align with the dresscode. If youāre unsure on what to wear, speak with the couple or fellow attendees to gauge what level of styling will suit best. If it is a black tie or more casual affair, this will help inspire you for the outfit.
PERSONAL SHOPPER TIPS: MAKE THE MOST OF YOUR SHOPPING TRIP
Are you feeling overwhelmed by going back to the shops in the UK? In this article, I share my top tips to help make shopping a more enjoyable experience.
If you have already managed to get to your local high street, you will have noticed that many people are making the most of once again being able to shop, eat, and connect with loved ones. But the new normal may feel a little daunting in terms of getting out and shopping for perfect items for your wardrobe, without wasting your time and money.
In this article, I wanted to share my guide to maximising your shopping trip to make it enjoyable, functional, and economical. This is so important, as shopping, particularly for fashion, should be an enjoyable experience. For many, it can be overwhelming and expensive, particularly as at the moment, many stores are not allowed to have changing rooms.
Have your technology ready
The first important thing to note for going shopping after lockdown is that many stores will have a QR code to scan for your NHS tracker. Make sure you have that set up on your phone, and can easily check in and move into the store.
Technology can also be really handy too to help you know the items you want to get ā so bring your phone with your style board already downloaded (if youād like your very own style & confidence boosting guide, book my styling session!). This can be a really excellent way to make sure you are picking up the right items for your personal style, without getting distracted by the current trends that feel shiny and new, but may not suit your current wardrobe.
Know what you need, and what you want
What you need and what you want are two wonderfully different things when it comes to shopping. Knowing which of each you would like to get when shopping will help you feel more in control of what you are looking for, rather than aimlessly walking through shops, feeling like you canāt find what you want!
How to know what you need:
1. Consider the outfits you already have and love ā see if they need an update for the season
2. If you have a go-to outfit that you love, but perhaps an item doesnāt fit, or you have only one so can only wear it once, then see what extras you need to replicate the look regularly!
3. Know your basics ā do you have them? For example ā do you have an easy to wear light jumper for spring; perfect jeans you can pop on and feel confident in; a tee that can be comfortable but suitable for seeing colleagues, loved ones, and friends; and if you need an update in shoe options since weāve been in slippers for a year!
How to know what you want:
1. If you love a certain style of outfit but your wardrobe doesnāt currently accommodate, you can see if you can make this from items you find while shopping
2. Non-essential items in your wardrobe, but ones that will bring a little more personality and joy to your outfits.
3. Special occasion events ā letās be honest, we arenāt going out to lots of parties, so a special occasion outfit isnāt as essential as work, meeting, and networking outfits!
Once you have your āneedsā and āwantsā lists with you, keep them in your bag so you can refer back to them throughout your shopping trip and tick them off as you pick them up.
Do some research!
One thing my clients find so helpful once weāve had our personal shopping together is seeing how we plan prior to the shopping trip. I do my research on local shops that offer the colours, cuts, styles, and personal brand options that my client wants.
This helps us to know more than just the right shops to visit, but also that they will be a good shop to go to and enjoy the experience. For example, if you are looking solely for excellent jeans, then you should find the highest recommended jeans shop in your area, or go to a store like Selfridges which has a lot on offer in one easy to visit area. You can then try different brands to see which ones fit your body best.
Within this research stage, you could check out the outfit ideas that are shown on the shopās Instagram, and website to inspire you for future outfits. Itās also important to know the sizes that fit you in this store. This can be a learning curve, and without being able to try on in the store for many shops, you may want to get a few sizing options and ignore the number ā it is different in so many places and is not a reflection of anything other than the shopās creations.
Enjoy the shopping experience
My most important thing to remember when you go shopping is to enjoy it.
So often we are rushing around, feeling concerned about our timing, other things to do, where to go, and what to find. With your research and list in your pocket, your style knowledge on your phone so you know exactly which colours, cuts, and stores to gravitate to, you have removed the stress element. Then you can make the experience an enjoyable one.
Give yourself time to walk around the shops ā donāt have appointments you have to rush to afterwards, let this be a meeting with yourself that you can enjoy.
Find a local coffee shop for a pick me up ā I find having some delicious coffee, or tea, stopping for lunch, and knowing the little places you can stop, recuperate, and enjoy the day, is so important to my mindset when shopping.
Bring a friend ā when we are able to shop with different households, see if you can bring a friend that is confidence-boosting, who knows you well, and can perhaps bring a different idea to your clothing choices that really reflect you, but perhaps push you to new styles you may not have picked up.
Use a professional ā if you still feel overwhelmed by the whole experience, I would love to recommend finding a local stylist who can help you. Whether itās an online guide, a personalised experience, or just seeing what professionals suggest, will make shopping happy for you.
I hope these tips have helped you feel more encouraged about the shopping experience for yourself. If you have any questions or want to discuss how I can help, please reach out ā I love making sure all of my clients get to enjoy their wardrobe and feel confident every day.
7 TIPS TO FIND THE PERFECT PAIR OF TROUSERS
In this article we get advice from our guest writer, Dara Stringham, who is a tailor in London, and shares her advice on how to find the perfect trousers for you, as well as how to use a tailor to help make them fit to perfection.
In this article I am delighted to have a guest post from tailor, Dara Stringham, who shares her advice on how to find the perfect trousers for you, and how to use a tailor to help make them fit perfectly.
Why is it so hard to find trousers that fit?
7 tips to get the perfect pair of trousers
Iām sure that most of us have asked ourselves this question: Why is it so hard to find trousers that fit? And perhaps weāve taken it further to think: What is wrong with my shape?
The truth is that trousers are one of the most difficult garments to get right - especially for women. We all carry our weight in different ways and as we age our shape changes too. I am certainly seeing a difference in my waistline now that I have reached my forties. Partly itās having had children, but itās also natural metabolic changes that occur as we grow older.
When drafting a pair of trousers for my clients, I take into account a variety of factors that go beyond simple measurements. For example, the shape of the hips, tummy, thighs, and seat. Are they round or straight, what is the angle of the hips from front to back, left to right, the overall posture?
Conventional ready-to-wear can only accommodate a basic symmetrical shape - and if youāre lucky youāll fit into it. However, itās far more common not to, which is why Iād like to share a few tips on getting trousers to fit better, and what to consider when purchasing a pair.
1. Always fit your largest measurement.
When purchasing clothing, itās a good rule of thumb to fit your largest measurement and then work with an alterations tailor to fit the rest of the garment to your shape. So, if your hips are wide, make sure you have enough room in the trousers to sit comfortably and not have unsightly creases cutting across your thighs. Then have the waist taken in to fit.
Have a look at the waistband on the trousers, and ask yourself these questions:
Ā· Does it have a centre back seam?
Ā· Are there belt loops that might get in the way?
Ā· How easy is it to open and detach from the trouser legs?
Ā· Are there pockets in the side seam which could make taking it in at this point more difficult?
Considering these questions when you are shopping will help you decide whether it will be an easy alteration or a more complex one. If youāre not sure, buy them and take them to a tailor for advice.
2. Find a tailor that will do a fitting with you.
Following on from my point above, I would suggest finding a tailor or dressmaker that will do a fitting with you. So, rather than going in and saying, āI need the waist taking in by 4cmā, have your tailor look at the fit with you. Often in addition to taking in or letting out the waist, adjustments need to be made to the crotch and inside leg seam. Having an expert give you advice is the best way to achieve a good result. For tips on how to find a good tailor you can read my blog here.
3. Consider the seam allowance.
Most conventional garments only have 1cm seam allowance to save on production and material costs. However, better brands will have a deeper seam allowance of around 2cm for the leg seams, and 3+cm on the centre back. Taking note of this at time of purchase will give you more scope for alterations in the future - especially letting out your favourite pair of trousers should it become necessary. (And after a year at home this is increasingly the case!)
4. Buy more than one pair.
As a good pair of trousers are so difficult to find, I recommend buying more than one pair of the same design if you find ones that fit. I have so many clients who come to me disappointed that their favourite pair are no longer stocked. Retailers change their collections, even their basic styles, on a regular basis. So donāt rely on your favourite design being available forever.
5. Find the best style to suit your shape.
Finding the perfect trousers begins with understanding which style suits you best. Are you long or short waisted? Are your legs long or short in comparison to your torso? What is your overall body shape? A personal stylist such as Stefania can give you expert advice on which styles are best for you and more importantly where to find them. For example, if you are long waisted, high rise trousers are ideal for you. They optically shorten the torso and lengthen your legs bringing your body into proportion. Or if you are wider on your top half than your lower half you could choose wide legged trousers to balance this out.
6. Consider the pockets.
Pockets and their placement can play a big role in the fit of trousers. If you have a round tummy slanted pockets on the front are more likely to gape open and add bulk where you donāt want it. Instead, having pockets in the inseam or choosing ones that can be closed with a zipper can be a better option.
On the back, the placement of patch or jetted pockets with flaps can help break up the area. Again, considering your shape and knowing what will work best for it is important.
7. Trouser Pleats.
Pleats or sharp creases are a great way to define the leg and make sure it looks neat and long. The vertical line creates length. The direction of the pleats is also important. If they are facing towards the middle, they draw the eyes inwards, minimising wide hips. Folded towards the outside the reverse is true. So, a simple reversal of the pleat direction can make a big difference to the look of the trousers.
I hope the above tips are useful and give you some ideas on how to achieve a better fit. If you have any questions, please feel free to get in touch.
And if youād like to find out more about the most common fit problems when it comes to trousers you could also read my post here.
PERSONAL STYLIST TIP: THE CROSSOVER PIECES EVERYONE SHOULD HAVE IN THEIR WARDROBE
There are often pieces that we call ācrossoverā pieces that can stay in our wardrobe during all seasons. They are items of clothing that you love, and can be timeless in your wardrobe, so what are my top picks that work perfectly in your wardrobe at all times of the year? Letās take a look!
I love a tidy, organised, and season ready wardrobe, which you can learn about here, but there are often pieces that we call ācrossoverā pieces that can stay in our wardrobe during all seasons. They are items of clothing that you love, and can be timeless in your wardrobe.
Crossover clothing examples
I wanted to share with you a few of my favourite crossover pieces in my own wardrobe to help inspire you, and recommend some items you can add to your wardrobe that will work for Autumn, all the way to Summer!
Leather jackets
A leather jacket can be a staple in your wardrobe, and will always stand the test of time. I recommend investing in a really good jacket that you adore, if you are vegan there are countless faux-leather jacket options you can get nowadays, such as this Melrose vegan moto jacket, or this bright cobalt blue BB Dakota biker jacket, for those of you who just love a splash of colour! There are also the classic leather jackets that age with time and become softer and more classic with the years, such as this black All Saints moto jacket or this DOUBLE-FACED BIKER JACKET by Zara.
As someone who truly believes that eco fashion is something we really need to be conscious of, you can get some incredible vintage leather jackets from vintage shops in London or surrounding areas, so if you are able to visit a vintage clothes shop, I recommend having a browse for one that has been preloved and is much softer to use. You can also try out one of the online vintage stores such as Vestiare Collective, hardlyeverwornit.com, Thrift.plus, houseofvintageuk.com, or Vinted ā which is an app you can use to sell or buy preloved items. Whichever place you go to, I truly love a leather jacket as it can last a remarkable number of years in your wardrobe as long as you take good care of it. You can wear these in the Winter as your top layer, or in the summer as outerwear over your shoulders to add a touch of protection for the evening.
Classic tee
A good t-shirt is hard to find, but when you have the go to shape and style that works for you, then you can utilise them as a great crossover piece in your wardrobe. I have a selection of white and black t-shirts that can just be thrown on in the summer, or added as an extra layer in the winter, that can I go to in my wardrobe when I need them. A cotton t-shirt is best for all weathers, like this one from & Other Stories, but if you are looking for something a little more trendy, you can look for a vintage band t-shirt, or a graphic tee with a cute design on it like this one from Lanvin that can add a little flair to your simple outfit of jeans and trainers, or keep some casual fun to your midi-skirt and heels.
One of my favourite t-shirt stores is Happyfern, a new sustainable brand launched by Gosha Doubtfire, that makes t-shirts and sweatshirts in recycled cotton, for women, men and kids. Weāve even collaborated to create a one of a style tee too!
Crossover dresses for all seasons
Dresses can be a really easy way to dress up or dress down in a flash, just using the right accessories. There are of course dresses that work specifically for summer or winter, but with the right additions you can change up your favourite dresses with a simple knitwear item over the top, or a long-sleeved top underneath. You could even add that excellent leather jacket or a blazer in autumn and winter to keep yourself warm. A simple strappy dress, such as this one from & Other Stories or this slip style dress from Envelope1976 can work beautifully for summer with a light blazer on top, as well as in winter with a lovely big high neck jumper over the top. If you prefer to keep your arms covered during the summer and winter, then this long sleeved polka dot midi dress can also work with a cardigan, or a cropped jumper to keep your waist the main focus while remaining warm.
If you like items that come as pairs, then this season, All Saints have already done all the hard work for you, with their jumper and dress combinations. I love this black feather print strappy dress with luxurious over jumper, both of which can be used separately or together so you truly have several outfits you can make with just 2 crossover items in your wardrobe!
I hope this has inspired you to not only see the benefit of having crossover items in your wardrobe for all seasons, but helped you know how to maximise those items already in your wardrobe. If youāre unsure on where to start when it comes to personal styling, then Iād love to chat with you.
PERSONAL STYLING TIPS FOR ENTREPRENEURS - WHAT TO WEAR FOR A BRANDING PHOTOSHOOT
Are you preparing to have a business photoshoot, but unsure what to wear and how to style yourself perfectly to attract the right people to your business? In this article, I share my top tips to help you prepare!
As the world begins to re-open, and countless entrepreneurs are starting up new fantastic businesses, or wanting to rebrand and announce their business reopening, there are lots of people coming to me asking for advice on what to wear at their business photoshoot.
Photos are a pathway into getting people to notice you for all the right reasons. I know the importance of photography, particularly for my business, as my service is so personal, I want people to trust, like, and get to know me just by seeing my business images. With just a few correct selections, your business photos can convey the perfect message to your customers!
Here are just a few of my tips that I share with my clients in advance of their business photoshoot.
1) Define the message you want to give through your image and choose outfits and colours that'll help you express the right message. If you havenāt read it already, you can read my article on How Colours Affect your Mood, which can be a really useful piece to help when you are deciding on which colours convey your business in the best way. Itās incredible that a colour can instantly make someone feel a certain way, so if you havenāt gone through the process with a branding expert in terms of the right colours for your business logo, or just havenāt got there yet, then the colours you choose to wear in your business photos can make a huge difference, and should reflect your business in the best way.
2) Define your target audience. Understanding who are you talking to will have an influence in your image and looks choices. When you have a branding exercise, knowing your perfect clients is essential to your entire business. Who are your perfect clients? What do they expect from someone delivering your service or product? How do you want to be perceived by them? When you know your customer avatar, you will be able to attract them to you with the right outfit choices and image options through your photos.
For example, if you are a business coach working with women in corporate jobs, you may dress in a more formal pencil dress with a colourful necklace to show that you are professional, but with personality. On the other hand, if you are a make-up artist, you will want to show colour and flair, to show you know the current trends and how to work them. These are simple considerations you can have when thinking about the perfect outfit and styling to choose for your business photoshoot.
3) Enhance your personality. Remember, your personality is a unique selling point and can help you stand out, so always express it through your style. So, if you are a bright, bubbly, and excited person, let that show through the outfits you wear. If you are a reserved, professional, then you can choose more muted tones.
4) Wear colour shades that work best for you and your features. Although you may be overwhelmed right now with all the options of what to wear to get the best results, the most important thing I believe on top of all of this, is to make your feel confident and shine brightly. The way to do this best, is by choosing the colour shades that work best for you.
If you are feeling overwhelmed with the thought of your upcoming business photoshoot, or perhaps you have a team photoshoot coming up and want your business to be reflected appropriately, and want to organise a group session to help get everyone ready, then please do get in touch. I am always so delighted when I can help my clients feel their best, look fantastic, and show their business in the best light through their photographs. Besides, youāre investing in your business with a professional photographer, so you should invest in yourself to make sure the photos look the best they can!
PERSONAL STYLIST TIPS - HOW TO PACK SMART
In this article, I wanted to share a few of my tips to help you pack smart, and make your break the most enjoyable it can be.
HOW CAN YOU PACK SMART TO BUILD CONFIDENCE ON YOUR HOLIDAY?
With the country coming out of lockdown, and many of us yearning for even a few days away from the day to day lives we have been leading during these uncertain times, you may be thinking of taking a short break. The most important part of making a trip the most enjoyable experience, other than the location and the company, is, in my opinion as a Personal Stylist, a selection of clothes you feel great in.
In this article, I wanted to share a few of my tips to help you pack smart, and make your break the most enjoyable it can be.
Make sure you really need the item/s you are taking
Research is a key element of planning for a holiday, the same goes for packing! Make sure all of the items in your luggage will actually be useful where you are going. What are you planning to get up to during your time away? If you are planning lots of walking and rest, you probably wonāt need the stilettos. If you are looking to break by the beach with cocktails and date nights with your loved one, then the walking boots may be taken out, and the stilettos put back!
Really research what you will be expecting from the location you are visiting, the weather that may be expected, and what you are planning to get up to, to help you maximise your luggage space.
Only take items that bring you joy
The clothes you want to take with you are those that really make you feel great. Ask yourself if you will wear the item, and take the first response as your true answer. If there is doubt, then donāt pack it. Make sure that you feel comfortable, confident, and know that the items you are taking are joy-bringers. Donāt pack items you havenāt worn for ages (unless, of course, itās a bikini that you loved on last yearās holiday!)
Capsules are essential
Itās best to have less in your baggage, than a confusion of items. Making a capsule packing structure will help you to see multiple options of outfits from only minimal items. Bring clothes that work together in palette, and ones that you know you wear together regularly. This will help you maximise space and prevent stress when picking out your clothes.
Plan your outfits
If you have the time, I highly recommend you plan your outfits, especially those that are for fun nights out or special occasions. When you plan ahead, your stress levels will dramatically reduce, and you will find you will feel joyous about what you pick out of your holiday wardrobe for each of the events you have prepared for!
Tissue paper is a great way to prevent creases
The old trick of using tissue paper (the type you wrap with) is actually incredibly beneficial! For some breaks, especially when you are visiting somewhere for only a small amount of time, you will not have access to an iron. You also probably wonāt want to spend your valuable time getting those creases out of your beloved items! One way to stop the creases is to use tissue paper when you fold your clothes, especially those that crease easily.
Have fun
After all this time in lockdown, and only just being able to take breaks around the UK, the last thing I recommend for packing smart is to have fun. Embrace the time you have on your holiday, and let your clothes bring confidence, joy, and the ability to truly enjoy your time away.
What are your tips for packing smart?
PERSONAL STYLING TIPS: 3 STEPS TO STYLE SUCCESS
Looking for advice on how to make your wardrobe work for you? I share my three steps you can take to make your style shine!
Style can feel a little overwhelming as an aspect ā many of my clients feel they donāt know their own style before coming to me. They do know that they like certain fashions and styling, but are unsure where to start.
In this article, I wanted to share 3 steps you can take to help you start your journey to finding your own style, and make it a pleasure rather than stressful.
Step 1 ā Colour can make all the difference!
Have you ever noticed there are certain colours you may gravitate to? Perhaps there are patterns and colours that make you feel your most confident? These are often the best colours for your wardrobe and for your skintone, which can be a great starting point to your style vision.
Look at your wardrobe and see which colour/s you see most of in there. Do these colours make you feel confident, beautiful, even sexy? These are the colours that you can go towards for the future investment pieces that you make.
I do suggest a more in-depth colour analysis to truly know the colours that work best for you, but to help you for the short-term, this step can be really helpful!
Step 2 ā Consider what your day to day life looks like
Now that you know the colours you want to include in your style, you can think about the types of clothes that will work for your every day life.
What do you get up to each day? Are you running to the office and require professional looks to maximise your confidence and feel appropriate for the office?
Perhaps you are a business owner and head to meetings with clients, as well as needing comfortable clothes to work from home, but that can instantly swap out to work for the virtual meetings?
When you know what your daily needs are, then you can look at what can work for your wardrobe. Your style doesnāt have to follow the rules that others impose, but they do need to work for your needs. If you are a busy mother who runs your own business, 6 inch stilettos and pencil skirts may not be the most appropriate thing for your day to day style needs! However, you could have a pencil skirt and wedges, if that feels right for you.
This takes me onto step three!
Step 3 ā Who are your style icons?
Something I often ask my clients in our Personal Style Masterclass, is who their style icons are. What makes them your icon?
Knowing who dresses in a way that you love can really help you find clothing that is similar, and can help you create a style that works for you. There can be several icons you can find that can have similar styles, so it can help you really drill down and see what styles are the ones you gravitate to. One of my clients I worked with recently shared that her style icon was Cate Blanchette, with an androgynous style and blazers that stand out, this helped her curate a wardrobe with outfits she loved.
When you feel your wardrobe sings your personality, and works towards building your daily confidence, dressing can be a pleasure each morning. If you are finding it difficult each day to plan an outfit, or go through clothes overwhelm, Iād love to help you with my Personal Styling Masterclass, where we will have 2 hours to create a style, learn your body and face shape to enable you to find the styles that work for you, and make you more confident each day.
SHOPPING TIPS - TOP INVESTMENT PIECES TO BUY TO RENEW YOUR (LOCKDOWN) LOOKS
Although the lockdown has meant some essential shops will be opening, I wanted to share with you some investment pieces you can add to your wardrobe to help renew your looks for work and play!
Although the lockdown has meant some essential shops will be opening, I wanted to share with you some investment pieces you can add to your wardrobe to help renew your looks for work and play!
Some tips for investing in accessories and clothing
Investing in items such as jewellery can be an incredibly rewarding experience. Not only does it means you have a cherished item in your wardrobe that youāll love wearing, but you will have a piece that lasts the test of time.
I truly believe in eco-fashion, and with investment clothing pieces and jewellery, you will know that the items you spend slightly more on, will last throughout your life. They quality of the items I recommend below, will be that of pieces that you will cherish and lovingly care for, so when you do invest in them, I highly recommend ensuring you know the care requirements such as cleaning and adjustments if in future you need anything tailored or changed according to your lifestyle or body changes. I do recommend that pieces you adore that you want to fit you excellently can benefit from having a tailor work on them so they fit you perfectly.
Headbands
I have recently shared some tips for online meetings, which included my love of hair accessories to help totally transform your look, especially if you are busily looking after even more tasks each day during lockdown!
Colourful headbands such as these from Etsy designer LollyKiks, are a fabulous and easy option. They instantly add colour to your outfit and cover up that hairstyle that may be in need of the hairdresser! They are very budget friendly, and work for an array of hairstyles as they have the elasticated bottom to help keep it in place.
For a more classical style, Alice bands are another alternative way to transform your look, and are perfect for shorter hairstyles as they do not scrunch up your hair. I love this fabulously colourful and unique Alice band from Orelia, and it is available in an emerald green style with a tiger (!) or a more delicate option of pink with flowers.
If you prefer something without a pattern, I found this beautiful gold headband which has an added āknotā at the top to add definition. It is in a faux leather so is vegan friendly, and really adds a touch of glam to your hairstyle!
How to use colourful scarves to transform a look
Scarves are a fabulous way to add colour, personality, and definition to an outfit and can totally transform something that feels monochromatic. Now, I love the monochromatic style, especially for professional outfits, but when you add a scarf you can then add a touch of personality to the look with something that perfectly fits in your handbag (or even your back pocket!). You can transform a look with the same scarf but styled in countless ways, so have a play with the different options and have some fun!
One option for a scarf is the stunning Dolce and Gabbana silk scarf, which is an investment that you will cherish and will stand the test of time in terms of style. If you are someone who loves floral patterns and it works with your personal brand, it can definitely be an item to invest in for your wardrobe.
A shawl can be another option within your scarf collection, and can transform your outfit, especially this piece by Missoni which has fringes and colour! It is another high quality designer investment piece, but if you are looking for an item that can work to help bring some personality to any outfits, or if you are someone who wants to add colour without feeling committed to an entire outfit, I highly recommend a shawl such as this.
However, if you have a moderate budget for investing in scarves, you can invest in colourful items that work. This silk scarf which has been created using a design by 17th Century Japanese artist, Katsushika Hokusai. For a colourful floral silk scarf option, you could invest in this beautiful yellow number by Powder.
Colourful or detailed at collar tops
Tops can be accessories too, and there is nothing quite like a simple shirt with a touch of flair at the collar. Many brands have made fun collar accessories you can add to your shirts, or you can invest in the stylish top from the beginning and let your personality shine with your collar.
Starting with an investment item by designer Givenchy is this beautiful pussy bow blouse which is a simple black and white with the drama truly being shown by the collar detail. This shirt can be transformed depending on how you tie the bow, or how you style it. Try with jeans for a smart-casual style, or make it super professional with a blazer and work trousers.
For a more budget-friendly option, designer Kith and Kin have created this beautiful blouse which is perfectly simple with a touch of fun at the collar (and the cuffs) with a gorgeous design to let the blouse have some accents, without feeling overwhelming.
For even more fun, why not try out a quirky colourful shirt that will really add some personality and joy to your outfit? I love this Mariana Deri blouse which is a new fun take on a classic polka dot ā isnāt it just sheer fun?
Top Investment Pieces for your Wardrobe - Earrings
Earrings can transform a look and can help to add a little sparkle or flair to your outfit in a flash. When you invest in a beautiful pair of earrings, and look after them, they can be a piece that you go back to for years to come.
For a little colour with a professional edge, you can try these beautiful hand-crafted earrings by Jennifer Behr with Swarovski crystals and glass pearls with a drop silhouette. There are also these beautiful colourful drop-earrings by Magpie Rose. This style of earrings work perfectly to transform your busy Mum white tee to a professional look, just wearing these earrings! They can also work beautifully with a classic monochromatic look, such as a black suit, slip dress, or polo neck. I recommend colourful earrings like these if you want to add a touch of colour to your wardrobe, too.
I recently fell in love with Italian brand, Nali, which have excellent on-trend jewellery at very reasonable prices, like these colourful drop earrings at just 16euro! Such a steal and they are an easy way to try out new trends before finding which ones you truly want to invest in and keep forever. Nali sell online, as well as in stores such as TK Maxx and some independent stores, so you can try them before you buy them too.
For a more abstract or original look, these unique, 14k gold plated drop earrings by Pamela Love are amazing! The colours, shapes, and mismatched style are incredibly popular at the moment, and I think work really well for people who are more unique in their style choices. If you want to show off your personal flair, then earrings that are mismatched can be a great go-to. These are quite long earrings so may suit shirts that are more v-neck, to elongate your neck.
To try out the asymmetrical look, you can find this style on a tighter budget to test out the look, as it can feel strange to wear two different looking earrings if you are used to more traditional styling. this pair by Liars & Lovers are budget friendly and have some fun colours to bring some personality to your outfit.
Investing in necklaces for your wardrobe
My final investment pieces you can add to your wardrobe is necklaces ā these are an accessory many of us may already have in our wardrobe and can help to make a simple look be elevated.
Colourful necklaces are a great investment to add to your wardrobe, as with the earrings above, they can go a long way to transform how your outfit looks without having to completely change ā speed is of the essence, especially during lockdown! When you invest in a beautiful necklace, you will want to take into account the colours that work best for your skintone and your current wardrobe. From a blue necklace in 18k gold, to a pearl and pastel pink statement ā you will want to make sure you find a colourful necklace that works for you.
For even more of a statement, you can try the statement chain look which requires a more adventurous personal brand. This really is a statement, but one I love the look of when styled correctly. The great thing about these chains is that they not only make a huge statement for your outfit, but can mean the rest of your look can remain minimal ā if you want it to, keeping your outfit choices simple, with just the jewellery to add your personal styling. Starting simple, you can try a gold or silver chain, which can be an easy first step into this trend, or for a more budget-friendly alternative Nali, have this stunning large chain necklace in beautiful pink tones at a very reasonable price. There is also this beautiful dual chain necklace by & Other Stories which is a more delicate but still on trend look.
No matter what trends are āhot right nowā your investment pieces should be ones that you adore, especially when they have a higher price tag. You should consider the care they require to make sure they last, and that they work with your current wardrobe so you can get pleasure from wearing them.
I am here to help should you want to have assistance with how to create a personal style that you love, that works for you, and can help to keep you feeling confident during and after lockdown. To arrange an online personal styling session, please do get in touch.
WHY BE PRIMARK WHEN YOU CAN BE GUCCI?
With the shops opening after lockdown, I share the reason behind investing in your pieces, over fast-fashion.
You want to look effortlessly stylish, but your patience is short, and you struggle to find a great fit, in that āwowā colour.
So, you end up in the same bland colours youāve always worn with no inclination to spend your precious time-off on shopping trips that leave you in despair.
Your wardrobe is bursting with clothes you never wear because you didnāt really know how to choose. Some items have the tags still attached after your disastrous impulse buys.
A personal colour analysis is the answer to your problems ā delivering a valuable service that saves you time, money, and stress.
At your consultation, you will learn the exact colour palate from 16 seasons (rather than the usual 4) that perfectly matches your skin tone, so you will look radiant and feel amazing. When you feel good on the inside, it shows on the outside.
Youāll also learn how to buy less, wear more using my unique method, saving you money and creating a beautifully arranged closet. Your sustainable wardrobe is not only good for your finances, itās great for the environment too.
Youāll be encouraged to try new options which push you out of your comfort zone, enabling to develop your own sense of style and increase your confidence.
Youāll get tailored advice on the latest trends, so youāll be able to enjoy the shopping experience.
As an extra benefit, you will also get a personalised make-up session enabling you to perfect the complete look for your skin type and tone.
Your personal colour analysis consultation will save you heaps of time and money by enabling you to purchase the ideal clothes that make you look and feel self-assured, elegant, relaxed or funky ā whatever works for you.
You can save the cost of this service (Ā£185) in your first shop simply by having the right information and confidence to make the perfect purchases every time and cutting out the wasted hours in store.
Get in touch to find out more or book an online consultation and get your wardrobe ready for autumn/winter 2020.
One of a style, because you are one of a kind.
Stefania
PERSONAL STYLING TIPS ā THE KEY SHOES TO HAVE IN YOUR CUPBOARD
I share some of the top shoes you should have in your wardrobe to suit all outfits!
Shoes can be a fantastic finishing piece to an outfit, and I love seeing how many options we have on the market now. Whether you are looking to have an elegant trainer, a killer heel, a statement boot, or a simple dolly shoe, you can make your statement with your feet in this day and age!
The great thing about shoes is that they can last a lifetime with the right care, so I do recommend investing in a few key styles that can work with several outfits.
A pair of boots for Autumn/Winter outfits
I recommend investing in a pair of brown and a pair of black boots ā these are excellent for Autumn to Winter. Now we are in Spring, you will find several stores are offering a great discount on their boots in store.
If you want a little touch of personality, you could break from the traditional black and brown, and invest in some colourful boots that work with your personal colour preferences. I love these white booties from Aldo, as they can be a great statement, but you could try maroon, purple, green, or even blue!
Comfortable Flats for every day
Alongside the boots, I recommend a pair of comfortable āevery dayā flats, these can be plain or with a touch of personality, but they are excellent for running between meetings if you prefer to be comfortable. There are a huge range of options available, but for a more smart look, I highly recommend the classic brogue or dolly shoe, as these can work well with any outfit, and you can potentially head to meetings in them without the need to swap your shoes around. If you need a little height, but donāt want the discomfort of your heels, a platform is an excellent solution.
And donāt forget about the trainers, one of the greatest (and most comfortable) trend in shoes at the moment! The can transform your outfit from formal to smart casual in an instant, making you look fashionable and stylish, while preventing sore feet!
The perfect pair of heels for any outfit
If you are a heels girl like me, then a pair of strappy heels can be great for the summer. If you want to show off a little flair when wearing your black monochrome outfit, then a pair of fabulous statement stilettos can be an fun piece in your shoe cupboard ā there are these leopard print stilettos by Moda In Pelle, which are amazing, or for a little less statement, why not try these green stilettos by Hobbs of London. I also think a pair of nude heels can work wonders with a dress, jeans, trousers, or a skirt, so if you fancy treating yourself, I love the look of these nude shoes, as they are just the right heel for newbies and experienced heel wearers, and they basically go with everything!
Whatever your preference, you can truly show off your personality and style with your shoes, even if your business or job title require you to potentially stay a little more muted in your outfit choices. I hope these have given you some fun ideas for the essentials for your shoe cupboard, and Iād love to hear from you which shoes you love most to add a little spark to your outfit!