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PERSONAL STYLING TIPS: WIDE-LEG TROUSERS AND HOW TO STYLE THEM

Wide-leg trousers are incredibly flattering on most body types, not only are they comfortable and versatile but also effortlessly stylish.

But how do you style them for different occasions? Let’s explore some outfit ideas to inspire your wardrobe.

The Rise of Wide-Leg Trousers: How to Embrace the Trend and Style It with Confidence

For years, skinny trousers and jeans have dominated the world of women’s fashion, but recently, wide-leg trousers have taken centre stage as the go-to trend. And I suspect, and sincerely hope, that this trend will be here to stay for quite some time.

However, many of my clients initially found it challenging to adapt to this change. I’ve often been asked, “Are wide-leg trousers truly flattering?” and, of course, “How should I wear wide-leg trousers?” or “What tops and jackets pair well with wide-leg trousers?”

Naturally, when the shape of your trousers changes, everything else needs to change too—from your tops to your shoes. But after a couple of years, it seems that even the most sceptical minds have finally embraced this new silhouette. Why do I say “finally”? Because, truly, wide-leg trousers are incredibly flattering on most body types.

Take it from me, as someone with a pear-shaped figure, I struggled for years to find trousers that fit well and made me feel confident. Now, I happily buy and wear wide-leg trousers with ease, finding them not only comfortable and versatile but also effortlessly stylish.

But how do you style them for different occasions? Let’s explore some outfit ideas to inspire your wardrobe:

1. Tailored Vest

Pair your wide-leg trousers with a tailored vest, either in a matching tone or a contrasting colour. This combination offers a polished, chic look that works perfectly for a day at the office or a smart-casual event.

Stylist Tip: When choosing a tailored vest, pay attention to the cut and fit. A well-fitted vest that nips in at the waist will help balance the volume of the wide-leg trousers, creating a streamlined silhouette. If you're on the shorter side, opt for a cropped vest or one that sits just above the hips to elongate your legs. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different textures—wool, tweed, or even a soft silk can add an extra layer of sophistication to your outfit.

2. Trainers and T-Shirt

For a more relaxed vibe, style your wide-leg trousers with a simple T-shirt and a pair of trainers. This look is perfect for running errands or meeting friends for a casual lunch—comfortable yet stylish.

Stylist Tip: To keep the look modern and balanced, consider a slightly oversized T-shirt that you can tuck in at the front. This tuck is crucial as it helps define your waist amidst the volume of the trousers. When it comes to trainers, choose a pair with a chunky sole to add height and give the outfit a contemporary edge. If you’re feeling bold, try a graphic or slogan tee to inject some personality into your casual ensemble.

Wide leg trousers with tee - how to style wide leg trousers

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3. Fitted or Cropped Top and Blazer

If you’re after something a bit more refined, try a fitted or cropped top with a blazer. Whether you opt for trainers or heels, this outfit strikes the perfect balance between casual and elegant, making it ideal for both work and social outings.

Stylist Tip: The key to nailing this look is proportions. A fitted or cropped top draws attention to your waist, making it the focal point, while the blazer adds structure and sophistication. For a polished look, go for a blazer that hits just below the hips or opt for a longer, boyfriend-style blazer for a more relaxed, trendy vibe. Don’t shy away from playing with colours—monochrome looks are always chic, but a pop of colour in either the top or blazer can really make your outfit stand out.

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4. Turtleneck Jumper

For a cosy yet chic look, tuck a turtleneck jumper into your wide-leg trousers and add a belt to cinch the waist. This ensemble is perfect for cooler weather and can be paired with either trainers or heels for a versatile finish.

Stylist Tip: When wearing a turtleneck, consider the thickness of the fabric. A thinner, fitted turtleneck works well for layering and won’t add unnecessary bulk. If you opt for a chunkier knit, make sure it’s not too long—tucking in just the front section (known as a “French tuck”) can help avoid a bulky look while still giving you that cosy, relaxed feel. Choosing a belt that complements your trousers not only defines your waist but also adds an extra element of style—opt for one with an interesting buckle or in a contrasting colour to make a statement.

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There are so many different styles of wide-leg trousers available, and the details and fabric play a huge role in how they fit and feel. If you’ve tried a pair in the past and they didn’t work for you, don’t be discouraged—perhaps that particular style wasn’t the right one for you.

So, if you haven’t already, give wide-leg trousers a try. They might just become your new favourite wardrobe staple, offering both comfort and style in equal measure.

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PERSONAL STYLIST TIPS: WARDROBE ESSENTIALS - BUILDING A TIMELESS AND VERSATILE CLOSET

In this article, we share how to build a versatile wardrobe that not only works for your daily life, but will reflect your personality and boost your confidence.

Many of my clients come to me unsure on how to create a wardrobe that reflects their personality, works for their body, and is easy to create outfits from. 

For some, it’s the “I have nothing to wear” problem. Most of the time this can be due to an overwhelming amount of garments in their wardrobe, that, in fact, do not work well together to create a collection of outfits. While some feel that the outfits they can create don’t work for their day to day lives or reflect their personality.

The most important part of making your wardrobe work for you is picking garments that are versatile and timeless. This can feel a little daunting, particularly if you have been following trends and building a wardrobe for years! 

If you’d love to have a wardrobe that feels accessible and that works for your needs, here’s my guide to help you create a versatile and timeless wardrobe! 

Assess your needs

The first thing you need to do when creating a wardrobe that works for you, is knowing what you need each day. 

Ask yourself: 

  • What does my professional working life look like? 

  • What does my free time look like? 

  • Do I attend many special occasions? 

  • Do I need to change after the school run?

When you know what outfits you need, you can know what type of clothing you will require. For example, if you attend lots of special events, your wardrobe will need far more black tie and formal wear than someone who doesn’t. In the same vain, if you have a corporate job that requires suiting, your requirements will be different to someone who works in a creative company where you can wear more casual attire. 

If you're a mum, your priority is probably practicality (but this doesn't mean you have to give up on style!).

Understanding your daily needs will help you have a strategy when you assess your current wardrobe and when you go shopping in the future. 

Declutter your wardrobe

Now you know what you need, you want to make sure your current wardrobe works for you. If you have the “overfilled” wardrobe problem, the best way to work on this is to take out everything and go through the items one by one. When I work with a client, we work through the items and question whether the pieces either bring them joy, or work well across multiple other pieces to create outfits. If it doesn’t do this, it can be put to the side to be donated or sold. 

When you have the pieces that work together, and work with your daily needs, your wardrobe will already begin to feel more approachable. 

Keep your wardrobe curated and minimal, and get rid of what doesn’t work for you, especially before buying anything new. Only keep what suits you and your lifestyle and what makes you feel good. A minimal wardrobe will truly simplify your life.

Curate a wardrobe of versatility 

Versatile pieces are the ones that can be mixed and matched across one another in unique ways. They should be able to be worn in different situations, without compromising on your style, personality and comfort. 



Here are a few of my top pieces for versatility: 

  • Denim – a pair (or two) of jeans are an essential for any wardrobe. They can be dressed up with a blouse, or down with a vest/tee. They are great for running around and doing errands, or can even work for a date night with heels. 

  • Blazer – essential for a professional look, but can also work for more casual looks that you want to elevate. You may be amazed at how many ways you can style a blazer.

  • White (or neutral) shirt / Tee -  depending on your personal style, you can’t go wrong with a plain white t-shirt or shirt. It can be paired with countless bottoms, and can balance out a statement piece that you have in your outfit. 

  • Body suit or fitted tank top – I love a body suit, because it can be worn as a layering piece, and can be a clean, smooth garment that doesn’t require tucking in. If you don’t like a bodysuit, a fitted tank top is a great alternative. 

  • A neutral dress – the little black dress is beloved for a reason – it works! Black can, however, be a colour that doesn’t work for many skin tones, so finding a neutral shade in your colour palette can be a great alternative. Depending on your style, you could opt for a maxi dress, mini dress, a-line – there are lots of options. Adding layers and hosiery, as well as accessories can transform the dress effectively making it work as multiple outfits in one. 

  • Knitwear – I know this is a broad term, but, you need a few pieces of knitwear that you can throw on as the weather gets cooler. I like a cropped cardigan, a longline cardigan, and a couple of heavier jumpers in my wardrobe. 

  • Formal trousers – even if you don’t go to the office regularly, a pair of more professional trousers can work across a multitude of events. Depending on your body shape you may want to look for wide legged, straight leg, or cigarette style. 

  • A selection of skirts – Midi skirts have stayed in style for several years, and this is because they are so versatile! Pair with a white tee, a blouse, or a body suit to complement the day ahead. 

For more ideas on how to create a wardrobe that works for you, you may want to consider creating a capsule wardrobe. View my recent article on how to do this, here

Let your wardrobe reflect your personal style

Finally, the most important thing to consider is your own personal style. A timeless wardrobe works when you have pieces you feel confident in. Staying away from fast fashion and trends that don’t work for your personal style will ensure you have a wardrobe that lasts. 

Too often we fill our wardrobes with garments that are currently in style, rather than pieces that reflect our personality. When you understand the personal style that is inherent to you, you will feel more confident when dressing and when shopping. 

And it's rather simple, it's about understanding what works for you on the outside (from colours, shapes and styles) and on the inside (helping you express your personality and feel your most confident)with.

One of a Style team is here to help you create a wardrobe that truly works for you and simplify your life!

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PERSONAL STYLIST TIPS: THE ART OF ACCESSORISING - ELEVATING YOUR OUTFITS WITH JEWELLERY, BAGS, AND MORE

Accessorising your outfit can make a huge difference to how the final look comes together.

If you want to elevate your outfits, but unsure how to use them effectively to enhance your style, then this article will share with you all you need to know.

Accessorising your outfit can make a huge difference to how the final look comes together.

If you want to elevate your outfits, but unsure how to use them effectively to enhance your style, then this article will share with you all you need to know.

 

Consider the occasion

I often say to my clients that they should have a selection of their favourite accessories across different occasions, to help them know exactly what pieces to gravitate to. When you know the type of day or event you are planning to attend, this will help inspire you for the perfect accessories.

For example, a day at the office will require different accessories than heading to a black tie dinner, which will be different to a day with the kids.

Start with jewellery

The reason I tend to start with the jewellery is because it is in the same room as my wardrobe – it’s as simple as that! Depending on your personal style you may want to pick a few delicate pieces that match, or look for one statement piece that works with the outfit you have put together.

Here are a few tips for finding the right jewellery for your look:

V-necks and necklaces – if you are wearing a v-neck top, or a low neck garment, a necklace that comes a few inches above the neck line, can work well to lengthen your neck. If you prefer a choker, this may make your face look slightly rounder.

Polonecks

Polonecks – as with the v-necks, you can use longer necklaces to elongate your neck. A layered selection of longer necklaces can be an elegant option.

Watches

Watches – whether you prefer a more delicate watch, or a larger chunkier piece, they are a great option for work and professional attire, as well as when you are running errands. Many people are now using their phones as their time piece, but I love when I wear my favourite watch, it really adds a touch of style to my daily outfits. Consider picking a watch in a neutral tone that can work with any of the colours in your outfit, or if you prefer a more abstract style, select a piece that really reflects your personality.

Earrings

Earrings – I tend to gravitate towards drop earrings when I am intending to wear my hair down, or when going to an event. For some, drop earrings can be an extension of their style, with unique creations that add personality to their outfit. Like most pieces of jewellery, the pieces you select should complement your own personal style, so they align with your wardrobe. If I am wearing my hair up, or going to meetings, I wear a simple stud in a metal that is in my season.

Rings

Rings – Recently, I have noticed that rings on every finger have become incredibly popular. Different sizes, locations (base of finger/top of finger), and metals are incredibly trendy at the moment. You could add one feature ring that stands out from the rest of the rings on your finger, or look for a set of rings if you want to stick to a budget and try out the multi-ring look. If this isn’t quite your style, consider wearing a couple of your favourite rings to add a final touch to the look. If you do have a profession where you are doing a lot of hand shaking, you may want to consider less bulky rings, for the comfort of the person you are meeting!

Bracelets

Bracelets – the final jewellery piece I like to consider is if I want to add on some bracelets. Whether it’s a chunky acrylic bracelet, or a more delicate metal chain, a bracelet can work well in cooler months over sleeves to add some texture to a more simple outfit. In summer, they can be layered to add definition to your wrists and some unique flair.

Layered accessories

While this may feel less like accessories and more like the outfit, layers can work as additional accessories to your outfit.

Things like a mesh top, a long-lined cardigan, or even cute socks, can add a touch of extra finishing to the outfits you create. Another layering accessory can be your belts and scarves, which are varied in their style.

One of my favourite ways to use a belt as a layering accessory is to add it over the top of a maxi dress. During the winter, when I pop an oversized jumper on top of my dress, or when I am wearing a cardigan, it can work as a way to bring me in at the waist, and adds a bit of “hardware” to my look to make it look edgier.

layering accessories with belt

With regards to clothing that you layer over your outfits, you can look into different fabrics while remaining in the same colours, or using these layers as your accent colour, which you can easily remove should you be moving between more and less formal occasions.

Your bag

While bags tend to be pretty essential no matter what we are getting up to (we won’t go into the pockets debate today!), they can be an excellent accessory for your outfit. From a tiny clutch for your make-up and phone, to a big over the shoulder bag for your kid’s snacks, spare layers, and devices, picking a bag that will help you throughout the day, while also look great will be a satisfying experience.

You don’t have to have a huge collection of bags either, if you want to have a select few bags that will work across the necessary parts of your life, I’d recommend these 4 types of bag:

Over the shoulder bag:

A small yet mighty bag that works with all of your outfits, in a neutral tone or an accent colour (depending on your personal style). It should fit your phone, cards, keys, and other essentials (think tissues, lipstick, and maybe even your small travel perfume!). This could be your daily bag, that doesn’t need to serve as a work or Mum-bag.

A backpack

I love a backpack! For some this may bring back too many memories of school but hear me out. A backpack is the perfect option for when you are commuting and running between meetings. It can hold your books, notepad, water, coffee, charger, the list goes on. All this space, while also making sure you aren’t getting a sore shoulder.

Clutch bag

A clutch bag is perfect for those special occasions where you don’t need to carry much with you, but want the option to carry your essentials, without the need to wear a coat all night. Depending on the events you tend to attend, and your personal style, you can go all the way with a glitter clutch bag or an embellished clutch that will give you the wow factor, to a simple clutch that is more paired back.

Briefcase or Mum bag

Ok, so I know these are two pretty different bags, but depending on your lifestyle, you may need one or the other on different days! A briefcase is a classic – the essential for carrying your work documents and perhaps even your laptop between meetings. It tends to be in leather (but other options are now available) and can range from classic styling to more abstract styles.

A Mum-bag, for me, is one that can fit under the pram, and you can use it as Mary Poppins would. Putting all of the kids’ essentials, your own snacks and water, plus nappies, shopping, and more in this bag that is required when you go anywhere with your children. While you are being “Mum” you don’t need to change your style. You can find so many options of larger bags like this to align with your personality (even a leopard print option) that you can continue to feel fashionable and truly “you” without taking away from the functionality.

The shoes make the outfit?

I remember reading a quote that shoes are the first thing someone will look at when they meet you. While I am unsure of that being true, the shoes can often finalise the look of an outfit. Depending on the shoes you can truly transform how your outfit will look and feel. Brogues can make jeans and a t-shirt elevated to a professional-ready outfit. While stilettos can make your suit feel sexier and ready for date night.

Investing in the shoes that work for your daily needs, and make you feel confident, will be an investment well made. While more budget friendly sneakers for doing errands can work well if you want to chuck on a pair of shoes without worrying about the wear and tear, you may want to look at investing (within your budget) in a few key pairs of shoes to make your outfits feel more pulled together.

A few of my favourite shoes and their outfit inspirations can be:

 

  • Platform sneakers – great for upgrading your more casual looks. Pair with your favourite jeans, or even with your midi skirt, and you’ll feel more pulled together, without feeling too overdressed.

  • Ankle boots – an edgy option to add to your shoe closet. Pairing them with leather trousers and a blouse can go a long way to complementing your rocker-style; while wearing them with your favourite midi dress will add some definition to your look that’s a little more unexpected.

  • Pointed toed shoes – whether you prefer the killer heels, or a short heel, pointed toed shoes can work beautifully with flared jeans. The tip of the shoe pointing out under the jeans make these more casual bottoms a little more sexy.

  • Brogues – I’ve noticed these have become more popular once again and they are a great more androgynous look for your work wear. They pair beautifully with a suit to go all out with your androgyny, or add a touch of femininity with a pair of thick tights and a mini skirt with a turtleneck.

The beauty of shoes is that they are so varied you should be able to find the styles you find you love. I recommend having at least 3 – 4 pairs of differently styled shoes in your closet. This will give you the variety you need no matter the occasion. Think of what you do every week and how these occasions are segmented. For example – work shoes, gym shoes, errands shoes, special occasion shoes.

Try a hat (or headscarf)

The hat is the final accessory I’ll recommend in this article, and it may make you either jump with delight, or quiver with unease. It seems that hats are a “marmite” accessory, while I implore you to try them out if only once!

A hat can be an elegant or edgy accessory depending on the shape and style you select. Exploring your personal style will help you discover the hats that work for you and make you feel confident and pulled together. Whether it’s a fedora, turban, beret or the wide-brimmed hat, you have countless styles to play with.

I’d recommend going to a store and trying different hat styles to see which one feels “right” for your personal style and adding it to your look next time you feel confident enough to do so.

A headscarf is another beautiful option to protect your hair texture, while adding additional colour and patterns to your outfit. For many, it is a way to maintain their religious commitment, or harking back to their own culture, and with the plentiful textures and colours we have available, you can play with countless options to work alongside your outfit.

As you can see – the accessories available to you are endless, and these options shared in this article are just the stepping stone to giving you some excitement to dressing. An accessory can make a big difference to the end look of your pulled together outfit, so I challenge you to give these a try next time you want to elevate your look.

If you are unsure on where to start with your accessorising, you’re not alone. I’d love to help you discover how to pull together looks with confidence that align with your personal style.

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PERSONAL SHOPPING TIPS: 5 REASONS WHY YOU NEED A PERSONAL SHOPPER

Beyond the glitz and glamour, a personal shopper serves as an indispensable ally, providing support and expertise to streamline your shopping experience, saving you both time and stress.

If you’re wondering if a personal shopper is a solution that would work for you, here are some the main reasons our clients come to us.

In a world where time is of the essence, personal shopping has transcended its high-end, celebrity-exclusive image to become a more accessible and practical solution for individuals from all walks of life. Beyond the glitz and glamour, a personal shopper serves as an indispensable ally, providing support and expertise to streamline your shopping experience, saving you both time and stress.

 

If you’re wondering if a personal shopper is a solution that would work for you, here are some the main reasons our clients come to us.

 

1. Time Saver Extraordinaire

 

Let's be honest – scouring stores and online platforms for that perfect outfit or thoughtful gift can be an arduous and time-consuming task. Enter the personal shopper, your time-saving superhero. By delegating the search for ideal items to a professional, you reclaim precious moments in your busy schedule. Whether you're a career-driven professional, a busy parent, or someone with a hectic lifestyle, having a personal shopper means less time navigating crowded shops and more time for the things that truly matter.

 

2. Fashion expertise, at your fingertips

 

Navigating the ever-evolving landscape of fashion trends can be overwhelming. A personal shopper, armed with up-to-date knowledge of the latest styles, becomes your fashion oracle. They possess the expertise to curate a wardrobe tailored to your individual style, body type, and budget. Say goodbye to fashion faux pas and embrace a wardrobe that reflects your personality and keeps you on trend without the stress of keeping up with the ever-changing fashion scene.

 

3. Stress Reduction

 

Decision fatigue is a real concern in our modern, fast-paced lives. The constant barrage of choices, especially when it comes to shopping, can lead to stress and overwhelm. A personal shopper acts as your stress reduction guru by narrowing down options, presenting you with choices that align with your preferences. With their guidance, you can sidestep decision fatigue and enjoy a more relaxed and enjoyable shopping experience.

 

4. Special Occasions, Simplified

 

Have a big event on the horizon? The search for the perfect outfit can turn into a daunting task. Here's where a personal shopper truly shines. Whether it's a wedding, a gala, or a milestone celebration, your personal shopper will help you navigate the myriad of options to find the ideal attire for the occasion. No more last-minute panics or compromises – just the confidence that comes with knowing you look your absolute best.

 

5. Financial Wisdom

 

Contrary to popular belief, employing a personal shopper can actually be a cost-efficient choice. How? By preventing impulsive purchases and guiding you towards quality investments. Personal shoppers are adept at discerning between fleeting trends and timeless pieces, ensuring that every pound spent contributes to a wardrobe that stands the test of time. In the long run, this strategic approach to shopping can save you money while enhancing the overall quality of your wardrobe.

 

Ready to Elevate Your Shopping Experience?

 

Consider welcoming a personal shopper into your life and reap the benefits of convenience, style, and peace of mind. No longer reserved for the elite, personal shopping is a service designed to make your life easier and more enjoyable. Whether you're a fashion aficionado or someone who simply wants to streamline the shopping process, a personal shopper is the key to unlocking a stress-free and time-efficient way to curate your perfect wardrobe. Elevate your shopping experience – your time and sanity will thank you.

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